Based on letters I’ve received, it seems like a lot of people enjoyed the post I did about ballbusting. Not just men who are into the fetish, but a surprising number of women who really seem to love the idea of slipping on a pair of thigh high boots and kicking the hell out of some guy’s cock and balls.
It’s kind of frightening in a way, but also really hot to think of women reading things like this and getting nasty ideas from it.
When I read femdom stories I usually think only from my own perspective and what I get out of it; how it turns me on and how I fantasize about being the guy in the story. The letters I’ve received made me stop and think about the effect these stories have on women. That they enjoy these things I never questioned, but how these stories open their eyes to new possibilities is really hot.
In modern society, even with equal rights, women are still portrayed in more of a submissive or secondary role to men. Sexually they are what is sought after, with the men doing the seeking. Women are more vulnerable and emotional, while men are the aggressive and even dangerous ones.
This is how women are usually depicted, and as a result a sort of conditioning occurs, creating the assumption that this is what women should be in the minds of both sexes.
It seems that when women stumble across femdom stories like the ballbusting and torture tales I’ve linked to here, they see a whole other possibility. Its like being exposed to new ideas and influences that open up the potential of another way of thinking, that of the female in a dominant sexual role, even an aggressive and sadistic one.
Not all immediately jump on the idea as something they would want to actually do. I think most probably don’t. But the idea itself, the fact that there are women who are powerful like this, women who enjoy female domination in extreme ways, is almost inspiring to many others of their sex. That even if this is not for them, other women can and will do as they please, especially in such extreme ways. The doors and possibilities open if one chooses to take them.
There are other women who are repulsed by femdom stories of any kind, even ones far more mild than ballbusting or the basic torture activities that are expected of BDSM. But most of these seem to object to the sexual displays less than the idea of sexually confident, dominant women. Some don’t think it is dignified for ladies to do these things, and others are grossed out by it, but they are in the minority overall.
Extreme femdom torture stories turn me on. I can’t deny it, though I also can’t deny that the thought of it really being done to me makes me cringe, especially more brutal forms of cock and ball torture. I don’t think I need to explain why CBT would make any man freak out, but while I don’t fully want it done to me for real, the idea of being tied up by a beautiful dominatrix and left totally helpless to her cruel intentions is really hot.
